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Tom’s Perspective – The Role of a Supervising Social Worker
When people think about fostering, they often imagine the families who open their hearts and homes to children in need. However, behind those families stands a dedicated network of professionals who provide support every step of the way. Tom, a supervising social worker based in Essex, is one such professional. His role involves guiding, encouraging, and collaborating with foster carers to help create safe, nurturing environments for children.
Tom began his journey as a social worker in 2009 and has explored various roles over the years. From adult services to children’s services, he has gained a wealth of experience, but it is fostering where he has truly found his passion.
Supporting Foster Carers: Tom’s Work
Tom’s work starts at the very beginning of a fostering journey, during the assessment process. When someone applies to become a foster carer, he is assigned to get to know them as individuals, couples, or families. This process involves a deep dive into their lives, exploring their background, parenting capacity, and experience with children.
Tom understands that some people find this process daunting. After all, opening up about one’s life to a stranger can feel intimidating. The aim is to reassure applicants that the goal is not to judge but to understand how fostering could work for them. Tom and the rest of our supervising social workers often finds that this process is therapeutic for carers, as they reflect on their life experiences and the unique qualities they bring to fostering.
Once carers are approved, Tom remains a constant source of support. He provides monthly check-ins, training opportunities, and guidance through any challenges that arise. When a child is placed with a foster family, Tom works closely with the child’s social worker, schools, and other professionals to ensure the best possible outcome for everyone involved.
Breaking Misconceptions About Fostering
Tom is passionate about addressing common misconceptions about fostering. Many people believe they would be ruled out of fostering due to past health conditions, mental health struggles, or even minor criminal records. However, these factors are not automatic barriers. What matters most is how challenges are managed, and the support systems carers have in place.
Why Fostering Matters
Fostering is an incredibly rewarding experience, and Tom’s work allows him to witness its transformative power firsthand. It’s not just about providing a roof over a child’s head but creating a safe and stable environment where they can thrive.
The Bigger Picture
Sally is deeply aware of the need for more foster carers. Across the UK, thousands of children are in care, many of whom have faced significant challenges early in life. Fostering offers an opportunity to change the trajectory of these children’s futures. Tom sees each child as an individual with unique dreams, talents, and incredible potential.
For those considering fostering, Tom’s advice is to embrace the process. It may seem daunting at first, but the support is there every step of the way. At its core, fostering is about making a difference—not just in the life of a child but in the lives of carers as well.